Tag Archives: #happiness

Friday’s Haiku

I’ve waited so long

To hold him very dearly

Oh! I love Friday!

 

He stands still

Muddling his uncluttered thoughts

Oh! He loves Friday!

 

As the sun rises

Our hearts pound cheerfully

Oh! We love Friday!

 

 

© Copyright 2017

Anabel Geneta Raymundo

 

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The Versatile Blogger Award

Hello readers!

 I have been nominated for the Versatile Blogger Award by Yeka who created myyeka.wordpress.com. She’s really amazing. Her blog features natural hair, health and fitness, and even lifestyle and relationships. In addition, she hopes to reach out to people struggling with their personality and life, providing them moral support and inspiration. You better check out her blog.

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  1. Thank the bloggers who nominated you and share their links.
  2. Nominate at least 10 bloggers for the award and provides links to their blogs.
  3. Inform them about their nomination.
  4. Reveal 7 facts about yourself that your readers may know.

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  1. I’m from the Philippines, a Southeast Asian country in the Western Pacific, comprising more than 7,000 islands. I’m proud of my homeland.
  2. Learning how to cook is one of the many things I wanted to be good at. However, I believe that nothing is too hard to learn and master. I’ll keep on trying.
  3. It might sound intriguing though, but I have that tendency to be skeptical at times especially when it comes to love and commitment.
  4. Among the various sports, I prefer playing billiards. (Just had the chance of learning the nitty-gritties last summer)
  5. I love Sidney Sheldon as much as I love his spellbinding novels.
  6. Reading and writing have been mooching my time since I was 15.
  7. Learn.Live.Love.Laugh.-is MY formula for a happy life.

 

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  1. aquibview (aquibview.wordpress.com)
  2. Thought Spark (thoughtsparkweb.wordpress.com)
  3. Gaillovesgod (gaillovesgod.blog)
  4. Life With La Toya (lifewithlatoya.wordpress.com)
  5. K E Garland (kwoted.wordpress.com)
  6. The Past Due Book (thepastduebookreview.com)
  7. Book Chat (michelleclementsjames.com)
  8. Random Thoughts (thoughtsfrommykitchen.wordpress.com)
  9. The Shower of Blessings (theshowerofblessings.wordpress.com)
  10. Friendly Fairy Tales (friendlyfairytales.com)

     

Hope you all accept the challenge.

Your readers deserve to know a bit about you.

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5 Things You Need to Know in Life

Life is not easy. At this age and time, I haven’t met or heard someone saying it is the other way around.

We’ve all been there. Even the richest people in the world failed once or twice in their lives. Even the intellectuals suffered from despair and condemnation.

Life is an unending cycle of learning and relearning things. It is composed of twists and hitches that one needs to defeat.

As we see it, it is never perfect. However, we should never disregard this principle: Live life the way it should be lived.

I’m not a sage nor an expert. But I have this assenting view towards life. I have shared here 5 most important things you need to probably rediscover about life.

You may disagree with some of these but please give it a shot first. If it makes you better and happier, apply it. If you think it doesn’t do any good, throw it away.

So here it goes……

  1. Trust yourself.

You are living in a world where you are bombarded with how inadequate you are. You’ve seen in the news how another 19 year old created a software that some giant company bought for a frigging $1 billion. Then you look at yourself and feeling disgruntled for not doing the same.

Because you feel you don’t have enough knowledge, you go out trying to get more skills and competencies. But then, when you already acquire those, you realize you are still inadequate.

This is not because you lack anything or what. It is because you don’t have resourcefulness, the feeling and confidence within you. It requires to show that you can take care of things, that no matter how bad the situation is, you will overcome it. Just learn to trust yourself.

  1. Learn to ask the Right questions.

When I was younger, my parents would punish me for not knowing the right answers in my assignments, tests and activities. Of course, the same is true with my former teachers. They wanted me to get the correct answers instantly.

As I grew up, I discovered that knowing the correct answers wouldn’t give me anything. But the right questions would.

Why asking questions is better than knowing answers?

If you ask the right questions the more likely you get a good answer. If you think you have the answer then this thought will limit your ability to find a better answer.

Undoubtedly, questions help you clarify things in your mind. The better questions you ask, the better your answers will become.

  1. Practice the 20-Minute Rule.

This rule will completely change the way you think about doing and learning things. Even if you’ve never been able to learn a skill before, following this rule will help you learn that skill in 30 days or less.

What is the 20 Minute Rule?

The rule is this: Whatever you want to learn, practice it 20 minutes in the morning right after you wake up and another 20 minutes before you go to sleep.

This is essential. By spending the 20 minutes after you wake up, your brain will be at freshest and will be able to assimilate the lesson quickly. However, the 20 minutes before you sleep at night is more important.

During sleep, your brain starts to accumulate all the things you’ve learned in the day. New connections are made in the brain which supports learning.

There is a saying about the brain, “Neurons that fire together, wire together”. As you practice, the pathways get created. The process is called myelination. Myelin is a chemical in the brain that is used to connect neurons together.

The more you practice, the more myelin gets laid down, the easier it is to practice. This is a virtuous cycle that gets established.

The more you expose yourselves, the more likely you become skillful.

  1. Think Accurately.

The ability to see things as they are and not as you “think” they are is probably one of the best things you will learn in life.

Most people don’t have this ability. They think they do, but they actually don’t.

What is accurate thinking?

Accurate thinking is being able distinguish facts from opinions. Whenever someone talks to you, they will share their opinions, speckled by facts. Not facts, speckled by opinions.

Your job is to distinguish facts from opinions. You must determine also if it is an important fact or useless fact. If it is an important fact, use it. If it is not, forget about it.

Make your decisions based on facts that you collect from a number of resources.

Just remember a quote from Dead pool. “Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one, and everyone thinks everyone else’s stink.”

Focus on finding facts from the opinions and you will be successful.

  1. You matter than you think.

When I was 25, I had that fatal experience.

Strangely, my right foot had swollen without any knowledge of its cause. I went to the doctor to be checked and he said I suffered from cellulitis. It is a kind of cell infection which I might have gotten from insect bites. Then I was advised to take some medicines for a week, but it didn’t do any better.

My condition became even worse and that made me disheartened for days. I couldn’t eat nor sleep. Everything turned darker. The following day I was rushed in the hospital.

As I was resting in bed, I realized one thing. I didn’t want to die. Not this time.

The doctor clearly explained my condition. It was no longer about my swollen foot, I had that severe gastrointestinal problem. He further said that I was nearly dehydrated when I was rushed in. The situation could have been a lot worst if I weren’t brought earlier.

I realized then, just for that split moment. I mattered.

It was one of the valuable lessons I learned in life. I matter. It matters that I live. It matters that I do the things I want to do.

In this same light, I want to share it with you: You matter. Don’t wait for that fatal experience for you to understand how important you are.

Even if no one else cares, no one else recognizes you. You matter.

Sometimes the world will let you feel how incompetent and worthless you are. This might be the time when you’re thinking about jumping in front of a bus or shooting your head by a gun.

Don’t do that. You matter. It matters that people see your abilities.

It matters that you share your gifts to the world. You might be seeing your potentials just yet, but they are brilliant and surprising.

Let the world see them because you matter.

 

© Anabel Geneta-Raymundo

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Message to my 500+ Followers

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I wish everyone a good day.

As you all know, my blog is just seven weeks old. It was in the 16th of July this year when Lebana’s Journal was introduced in the WordPress community. Blogging was a total stranger to me until that very moment. Back then, I couldn’t really dredge up what pushed me to create one, the last thing I knew was, I wanted my voice to be heard and the rest was history.

Today marks a special day for me. Lebana’s Journal just hit 500 follows in a short period of time. Well, that’s for me. Of course, I won’t let the day pass without thanking each and everyone of you who have followed and supported my blog. Surely, I would like to send my kisses and hugs to all. Same appreciation goes to those who have liked, viewed, visited, and even commented on my posts. Your words have moved me to be better than I was.

More often than not, I used to think that half of what I write here is garbage. However, it gives me comfort when I realized that at least they do not decompose in my head. Plus the fact that, someone from somewhere devotes his/her most treasured time reading my articles. Again, thank you very much.

Lebanas’ Journal will continue to serve its purpose of spreading good vibes and inspiration to everyone. I am writing to express not to impress and that makes a difference.

 

-Anabel Geneta-Raymundo-

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